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  I got a voicemail from an elder about meeting with me.

  by schnell in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  yesterday, i missed a call and got a long voicemail from an elder who would like to meet with my wife and i some time this weekend, with another elder who dealt with my brother.

  i haven't responded.

  it's meeting night tonight, and my wife has already talked about staying home to do yoga with me instead.. yeah.

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  The Searcher

  The only words needed are these - "I have private & personal issues which I will deal with, but thank you for asking."

  Firewall in place - end of! They are entitled to nothing more, and they know it.
  
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  Do you feel regret?

  by HereIgo in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  to help me move on after leaving the org and to maintain my sanity, i have worked on not regretting the time i spent in it.

  granted, i have only been out 6 years and was 22 when i left, i still was an active jw from age 16-22. those were prime times of my youth that i will never get back.

  i wanted to play high school football and basketball but couldn't.

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  It's very hard (if not impossible) not to have bitter regrets at times, because after all, even awakened J.W.'s are human!

  Although I may not be as young as Herelgo and other contributors, I genuinely get my "silver lining in the cloud" by applying the "butterfly effect" principle to my own life and looking at where I stand now.

  Live a great life and build upon the learning and experience you gained as a J.W.

  Get some good out of the bad, and be grateful every day that you are free to live!
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  It was never, ever, a warning work, was it?

  by jambon1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  most witnesses i knew were exteeemly reluctant to go out in the ministry.

  but when they did, they were simply scraping by, eager to avoid conflict and just do their hour or so speaking to lonely old ladies or widowed old men.

  placing magazines in a car group, doing route calls, plodding along in the utter boredom of their responsibility to get some time on a report by the last day of the month.. this was never a warning work.

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  For most J.W.'s, the priority was to clock enough hours for the monthly report - any "interest" was a surprising bonus.

  Every Auxiliary Pioneer is asked by fellow Witnesses, "Have you done your hours yet?". I've never heard an A.P. asked, "Have you started any Bible Studies this month."

  APathy is ever-present - and growing.
  
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  More speculation on Kingdom Hall closers and money grabbing?

  by Crazyguy in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  there continues to be more and more rumors of more halls being sold off some even taking the first offer.

  the borg trying to get thier bond money back from the court in san diego asap and there's been elders meetings about this consolidation.

  my questions is why after selling off all this real estate in new york for over a billion dollars are they still acting like thier broke?

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  Forever the optimist, I'm still convinced that the org has a very great need, not greed - a consequence of their bad investments coming home to roost in 2008. (I'm open to 'new lights' being produced to show otherwise)

  Nothing else justifies the draconian panic measures which the org has enforced in the past few years - the key word being 'panic'!

  We really need another Raymond Franz to reveal the truth about this topic.
  
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  HELP needed from folks in UK, esp. in Scotland!

  by WTS Archive in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  tl;dr: if you live either in scotland or in other parts of uk and you don't mind traveling, you might be able to help a fellow ex-jw by being present during a courtcase where she alone has to face more than two dozens of jws who have ruined their business.

  please contact me directly for details on when and where the court case will be held (i will know these details in few days probably).

  ps.

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  More details needed. Zero info from the national newspaper - Daily Record.
  
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  A Message to the Governing Body of J.W.'s - from Christ Himself!

  by The Searcher in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  (john 7:34) you will look for me, but you will not find me, and where i am you cannot come.

  (john 8:21) "so he said to them again: "i am going away, and you will look for me, and yet you will die in your sin.

  (john 13:33) "little children, i am with you a little longer.

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  (John 7:34) You will look for me, but you will not find me, and where I am you cannot come."

  (John 8:21) "So he said to them again: "I am going away, and you will look for me, and yet you will die in your sin. Where I am going, you cannot come."

  (John 13:33) "Little children, I am with you a little longer. You will look for me; and just as I said to the Jews, ‘Where I go you cannot come'...."

  If the apostles were being told that they weren't heaven-bound.............................?

  Which part of "cannot' is hard to understand?
  
  
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  tomorrowsworld.org - is this what the watchower is becoming?

  by nowwhat? in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  namely an e-religion with minimal congregations?

  notice the very similar subject matters.

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  Is this another splinter? https://worldtocome.org/about
  
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  Kingdom Hall sold. Now a mosque.

  by punkofnice in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so much for dedicating the kingdom hall, hallfields lane, peterborough, .

  pe4 7yh for 'true worship(tm)'.. it's now a mosque.. not that i care anymore, i have finished thinking much about the jobos.

  moved on and glad of it.. just thought you'd be interested.. now i'll sod off again for another few months.

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  Lovely to see the org's hypocrisy knows no bounds.
  

  Babylon the Great - get out of her, but profit from her increase to offset your decrease!

  Makes sense. :)
  
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  All they did was offer magazines, how pathetic.

  by Driving Force in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  https://www.jw.org/en/news/releases/by-region/italy/witnesses-offer-comfort-after-italy-earthquake/.

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  "Mr. Di Blasio revealed that some of the Witnesses whose homes were damaged, volunteered to offer comfort to [recruit] their neighbors using the magazine."

  Just following the Bible example of the good Samaritan who helped an injured Jew by offering him what he really needed - new teachings from the first five books of the Bible. (Luke 10:30-37)
  
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  My Ex Wife Admitted She Doesnt Believe It's The Truth

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my ex-wife actually opened up to me today over the phone.

  she was quite anxious and, i could sense, i little upset.

  for those that dont know my situation im separated from my wife.

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  The Searcher

  Imitate the good Samaritan and give her the help she needs right now - advice on how to carry out a fade confidently & fearlessly. She will really be grateful for your help.